Carolina Comments: Watching, Reading, Eating

Mary in the middle flanked by her sisters (townandcountrymag.com)

Mary Bennet is the odd sister out.  Very smart, but plain compared to her other sisters, she is harassed, berated by her mother, and oftentimes just ignored by her many siblings.  In Jane Austen’s Pride & Prejudice, she is viewed as having no marital prospects, while her sisters all gain husbands.  

The Other Bennet Sister begins with the scenario in Austen’s novel but then goes beyond it to create a world and another life for Mary.  She spends time in London with her aunt and uncle, acting as a fill-in governess for their children.  The Gardiners introduce her to London social life, and Mary meets and even captures the attention of two very different young men, Charles Ryder and Tom Hayward.  But her mother intervenes, thus providing more challenges for Mary to overcome.  

There are 10 episodes and they are short, just 30 minutes each.  Those familiar with Mrs. Bennet’s managing ways and Caroline Bingley’s superiority complex will delight in their portrayals here. Highly recommended for Jane Austen fans! 

Author Strout (Britannica.com)

Elizabeth Strout’s new novelThe Things We Never Say, is set in Massachusetts, not Maine, and none of the characters are familiar from her earlier works.  No Olive Kittredge here.  Instead, we have high school history teacher, Artie Dam, husband, father, and a lonely man.  At 57, Artie is distressed by the state of the world (it is not said directly, but the book opens just before Trump’s second term), somewhat depressed, sad in his marriage, and generally out of sorts.  

But he is a good teacher and frequently shows compassion toward difficult students (his wife Evie considers him “soft.”)  He obsesses over whether humans have free will, and in his spare time loves sailing alone on the bay in his boat.  When his son Rob shares a secret with him, Artie is initially both unsettled and doubtful.  The knowledge of this secret brings father and son closer together, and they begin to communicate regularly with each other, texting and phoning.  In many ways, the expansion of their relationship is the most significant one in the novel.

Through Artie, Strout explores how families and friends communicate or don’t, delving into the secrets and fears individuals keep to themselves or share only selectively with someone outside the family.  More than any of Strout’s works that I know, this is a political novel, quietly so.  U. S. politics with all its disruption, division, and angst is an underlying thread surfacing only fully in Artie’s unexpected friendship with Ken.  Some readers may find this novel dreary; I found it thoughtful and memorable.  Recommended! (~JWFarrington)

On the wall at Q Noodles

If you have a hankering for soup dumplings or any kind of noodles, a visit to Q Noodles would be most satisfying.  Tucked away in a less visible part of a strip mall behind DQ and Paris Baguette, it can be easy to overlook this restaurant.  In fact, I had never spotted it before our lunch here this past week.

The menu is extensive and includes a variety of pork and chicken buns, steamed and panfried dumplings, dim sum, and hot and cold noodle dishes, along with sweet and savory rice offerings.  Our table of ten shared two combination towers of dim sum (tasty) besides what we ordered individually.  I opted for the Sichuan beef noodle soup. In a big bowl, it was nicely spicy and enough for a second lunch the next day.  The Chief Penguin went for the Ybin spicy dry noodles with minced pork.  His dish was really spicy, and he loved it.  Lots of the other dishes are mild and would appeal to those who aren’t fans of spicy fare.  

Dining room, Q Noodles

The dining room is very attractive with its wall poster and inviting seating.  Service was friendly, but leisurely; we were definitely ready when the food arrived.  Q Noodles is so close that the C.P. and I could easily walk there—who knows when we will next want to satisfy a noodle craving!

Note: Restaurant photos ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved.)

Carolina Comments: A Library & A Novel

Main floor with views to the outside

Earlier this week, we had the fun of touring the impressive Hunt Library at North Carolina State University in Raleigh.  Around here, the university is commonly known as just State.  Good friends, Frank and Judy, were our hosts and arranged for a wonderful tour led by staff from the library development office.  

Lower level lounge

The Hunt Library opened in 2013 and is a contemporary building of an unusual shape with glass and metal facades.  Tall glass window walls allow the outside in with views of Lake Raleigh.  Many spaces are long and expansive with great light and views punctuated by a variety of creative and unusual seating choices.  

This library was one of the first to install a robotic book storage and retrieval system called bookBot.  Almost 2 million books are stored in metal bins stacked 50 feet high.  The books are in random order, but an order known to the system.  We got to see behind the scenes and watch a bin of books being retrieved and brought out by Robot Bob.  There are several robots and all but one have names.  Our State magazine included an entertaining account by Scott Huler of what it’s like to be in this library.

Former, now deceased, university library director Susan Nutter was instrumental, possibly aggressively so, in gaining the libraries greater recognition on campus and in expanding the services and assistance they offered to both students and faculty.  From audio labs to a maker space to a gaming studio, Hunt Library pushed the envelope.

Gaming studio

Nutter also had an interest in furnishings, and Hunt features a wealth of stunning chairs by different designers in a wide range of colors.  

While the backdrop is mostly neutral, as in white, there are punches of color everywhere making even big spaces inviting.  

Several yellow staircases make a particularly bold statement.  And yet, a student can still easily find a place for some quiet study in a room looking more like the traditional library of yore.

Quiet study space

BONUS SUMMER READING: FAMILY DYNAMICS

Whistler by Ann Patchett

Patchett (wikipedia.com)

I am one of Ann Patchett’s fans, and I loved her new novel, Whistler.  It’s a quiet book of reflection and review about one’s childhood and one’s choices, prompted by the return of a stepfather.  The book opens with Daphne Fuller and her husband Jonathan looking at exhibits in the Metropolitan Museum in New York.  Having just been to the Met twice last month, I was with them immediately and could easily picture their movement through the galleries.  Jonathan thinks a man is following them, Daphne dismisses the comment, and yet the man is indeed dogging their steps.  They meet and Daphne re-connects with Eddie Triplett, the stepfather she has not seen since she was 9, and she is now 53.

Daphne’s parents divorced when she was a child, and her mother remarried twice; hence, Daphne had a father and two stepfathers, but her favorite was Eddie.  What follows is both lovely and loving as Eddie and Daphne spend precious time together cherishing every encounter.  Daphne re-visits childhood events, sharing and dissecting them with her sister Leda, who is a therapist.  In the process, Daphne acquires an adult understanding of why her mother and Eddie separated and a new perspective on how her own life has been colored by the family disruptions of her youth.  Highly recommended!

As I was reading this novel, I felt the echoes of an essay I’d read by Patchett some years before.  The idea of several fathers stuck with me, so I did a bit of sleuthing and re-discovered “My Three Fathers” with the tagline “My problems were never ones of scarcity.  I suffered from abundance.”   It was in the September 28, 2020, issue of The New Yorker and is a touching account of how each of Ann Patchett’s fathers brought something different and important to her life.  It too is worth reading. (~JWFarrington)

Note: All library photos ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved.)

Carolina Comments: Reading & Eating

Harper(panmacmillan.com)

Last One Out is Australian novelist Jane Harper’s sixth book. It’s a mystery, but one with a slow burn.  For the fifth anniversary of her son Sam’s disappearance, Ro Crowley returns from Sydney to the small town of Carralon Ridge for the annual memorial event.  She and her husband Griff are separated, and he stayed in the town.  

Carralon Ridge is as much of a character here as Ro, Griff, their daughter Della, and assorted family and friends.  A big coal mining company’s operation runs constantly, and over the years, the company has bought up many of the residents’ homes.  Ill feeling often reigns between those who sold out and those who held on.  And the town has shrunk as businesses and organizations died out and people moved on.

Every year, Ro traces Sam’s last actions looking for answers to what happened to him.  Griff has cousins locally, and an uncle of his committed suicide.  For a student project at the university, Sam interviewed many residents and relatives about their lives there, what they did, and what they thought about the town’s future. The notebook containing the interview transcriptions is a document Ro reads over and over again.

The town and its environs are painstakingly described, the nuances and intonations of conversations are caught, and slowly, one sees a picture of the past unfolding as truths are finally revealed.  I found the initial chapters slow going, but as I got further into, I very much appreciated Harper’s skill in weaving and then untangling complex relationships in a dying place.  Recommended especially for fans of her work!  (~JWFarrington)

The Fenton residential and commercial complex is only a short drive away, so the Chief Penguin and I have been trying some of the restaurants there.  We love Brewery Bhavana there even though it’s small and its menu more limited than the original in downtown Raleigh.  Doc B’s Restaurant began in Chicago, named for the owner’s father, and now is also located in Florida, Texas, and Indiana. 

Doc B’s here is a large, expansive space with a prominent bar, loud music upon entry, and plenty of tables and booths spread around.  Wisely, the hostess seated us near the back of the restaurant away from much of the noise.  

Grilled artichoke

Rather than ordering entrees, we concentrated on starters and first off ordered the grilled California artichokes.  Split in half and definitely grilled, three halves were on the plate with some remoulade sauce.  As anyone who has ordered artichokes this way knows, there is a certain amount of work involved to eat them and the return in terms of quantity is limited.  But we enjoyed them.  

We also sampled the Buffalo shrimp poppers which came with the requisite ranch dressing, cucumber spears, and carrot sticks.  They packed a nice punch!  Lastly, we shared the oven roasted chicken wings.  I expected maybe 4 or 5 wings but instead received a generous platter; later we learned that it was a full pound of wings.  They were delicious and easily enough for three or more people.   

The menu has a full roster of meat dishes from steak to fried chicken and a variety of pastas, salads, burgers, and sandwiches.  Some friends raved about the homemade Oreo ice cream, but we never got that far.  We liked everything we tasted enough to plan to return. 

Doherty’s interior

Doherty’s is a local pub chain with restaurants in Cary, Apex, Holly Springs, and Pittsboro. My sisters and I had lunch in Pittsboro before spending time and money in some of the charming shops along the main street.  As you would expect, Irish favorites such as shepherd’s pie, bangers and mash, corned beef and cabbage, and beef and Guinness stew are on the menu along with a full range of soups, salads, and sandwiches such as Reubens and Rachels.  And of course, fish and chips!  

Two of us ordered the half fish and chips entree with cole slaw (other option being crispy green beans), while the other sister had a healthy salad with arugula, berries, and goat cheese.  All tasty fare! The venue is cozy and feels like an Irish pub including very nice service from our waitress.  Some nights, there is live music.  

Summer Reading 2026

For some years now, I’ve been in the habit of drawing up a list of books I hope to read over the summer.  Some are long hardbacks or biographies I have put off, others are just fun mysteries or beach reads, and one or two might be titles for my book club.  It’s a mix of fiction and nonfiction with some works more demanding than others.  My list is aspirational; I never read everything on the list and always, along the way, I buy or pick up other titles that appeal to me more in the moment.  

What’s on your summer reading list?  If you need a different approach, the New York Times this year offers a “Summer Reading Bucket List.” It is 10 suggestions of what book to select, everything from a book published in the past year to a classic you missed or need to revisit, to a book in translation.  The categories are broad enough for lots of personal choices with the challenge being to read at least five.  Despite the bucket list, I’m going with my usual approach, and this time have grouped my dozen titles by type.

Night Flyer: Harriet Tubman and the Faith Dreams of a Free People by Tiya Miles (Tubman lived some of her later years in the town where I grew up, Auburn, NY, and her house there is now a museum)

Pride and Pleasure: The Schuyler Sisters in an Age of Revolution by Amanda Vail (Raised in the Albany, NY area, one sister married Alexander Hamilton, the other charmed the likes of Benjamin Franklin and Thomas Jefferson. They also feature in the musical, Hamilton)

Savor: A Chef’s Hunger for More by Fatima Ali with Tarajia Morrell (young Pakistani chef’s life of food, family, and cancer, published 2022)

Big Lies in a Small Town by Diane Chamberlain (secrets and disappearance in North Carolina; book group selection for July, published 2019)

Canticle by Janet Rich Edwards (young woman’s exploration of religion, faith, and love in 13th century Bruges; author Edwards is an epidemiology professor at Harvard)

A Far-Flung Life by M. L. Stedman (family in Western Australia living on a sheep station; her first novel was The Light Between Oceans)

The Safekeep by Yael Van der Wouden (prize-winning debut novel set in the Netherlands in 1960-61)

Women of a Promiscuous Nature by Donna Everhart (novel set in 1940’s North Carolina based on a government program to regulate women’s bodies and sexuality) 

The Chalk Pit by Elly Griffiths (#9 in the archaeologist Ruth Galloway series; I’m slowly working my way through this 15-book series)

Last One Out by Jane Harper (latest novel by my favorite Australian crime writer)

Whidbey by T Kira Madden (three women connected by one man’s murder in this book by a native Hawaiian writer)

The Bookstore Diaries by Susan Mallery (life and loves of two sisters, Ryleigh, an elementary school teacher, and bookstore owner Jax whose closest friend is her talkative African parrot, Ramon)