Tidy Tidbits: A Book & Dining Out Options

BOOK OF THE WEEK

All the Beauty in the World:  The Metropolitan Museum of Art and Me by Patrick Bringley

In a time of family illness and subsequent loss, Patrick Bringley found a job and solace in a place he first visited as a child with his mother.  Mired in grief over his older brother’s death and only 26, he began working as a guard at the Metropolitan Museum.  He loved the quiet, almost uninterrupted, stretches of time it provided, and he took in the art in a studied way.  

His book is both an account of the inner workings of the museum’s security force: the various gallery assignments and the rotations that happen in each workday, and a portrait of some of his fellow guards and the friendships he made.  He also provides detailed discussions of some of the paintings, sculptures, and objects he particularly likes or was struck by.  Some of these works are illustrated by delicate black and white sketches.  

Bringley was a museum guard for ten years.  During that time, the reader experiences his growing maturity, his marrying and becoming a father, and when he reaches the point he felt ready to leave the Met’s cloistered world.  

Having read this, I doubt I will ever view museum guards the same way, and I will appreciate the Metropolitan a bit differently on my next visit.  I would recommend this to art lovers in general, but particularly to anyone who already has some familiarity with this museum.  Thanks to my friend Gale for sharing it. (~JWFarrington)

EATING OUT—BRADENTON-SARASOTA FAVORITES

As I get ready to leave Florida, I thought I’d share a list of some of the restaurants the Chief Penguin (my favorite dining companion) and I have enjoyed over our years here.

BRADENTON & CORTEZ

Bonefish Grill—close by at 75th Street, a chain restaurant, but consistently very good!  We love the sinful Bang Bang Shrimp and I, their shrimp and scallop combo with two sides.

Chateau 13—in our opinion the best fine dining restaurant and the most sophisticated in the greater Sarasota-Bradenton area!  Small plates as well as full-size entrees.  I loved the stuffed piquillo peppers and the French salad.  Menu changes seasonally.

Cremesh—Over in restaurant row on Manatee by Publix and Staples, this Austro-German restaurant serves delicious hearty fare.  Think schnitzels, beef goulash over noodles or mashed potatoes, or a salmon picatta. Simple décor and friendly wait staff.

Cortez Kitchen—One of the first casual places we tried here.  It was the essence of funky with its mix of snowbirds, tourists, and regulars plus live music on the weekends.  The food was good, not superb; we liked the coconut shrimp and the mahi sandwich. Cindy with striped hair was our favorite regular waitress.  Now Cortez Kitchen has been taken over by the Swordfish Grill owners and gussied up.  

New tables and chairs, including some of those awful high tables, but an enlarged seating area and more protection from the elements.  The humorous signs are gone (“If you’re here to forget, please pay first” and “Time spent drinking beer is not deducted from your lifespan”), but we had lunch there recently and were delightfully surprised.  My mahi sandwich was truly excellent, the Caesar salad very good, and the C.P.’s Cuban sandwich a treat.  Worth visiting!

Clam Factory—a roadhouse on Cortez Road serving delectable fried fish, a mean meatloaf special, and, if you’re a fan, fried clams, of course!  Additional seating outside.

Mean Deans—The name is misleading. This is a casual place, but the food is better and more interesting than you might expect.  Good salads, lovely swordfish, and nightly specials.  Watch for New England or New Orleans weeks with an appealing mix of land and sea options. 

Modern Chop—Next to Blake Hospital this steak house also serves fish.  It’s a step up from Mean Deans in décor and ambiance and is good. 

Pesto—Sitting on Cortez Road almost at 86th St. West, this cozy Italian eatery serves generous portions of pasta and meats.  Outside seating on a pleasant evening can be a welcome change from inside.

Swordfish Grill—Since they covered their tiki deck, Swordfish is now more appealing in almost any weather.  Fish, of course, calamari, salads, and sandwiches; it’s an extensive menu.  Food is good, but in my opinion, not outstanding.  Go to be at water’s edge!

(TideTablesCortez.com)

Tide Tables—A family favorite of ours.  Their grouper and mahi sandwiches and baskets are wonderful with cole slaw or baked beans on the side.  Very fresh!  As a special treat, the homemade key lime pie is luscious! On the water so you can see boats and walk on the short dock.

Thai Palace—One of several restaurants on Cortez Road we like.  Small inside, but attractive, and one of their curries always satisfy my Thai yen.

ANNA MARIA & LONGBOAT KEY

Mar Vista—One of a handful of restaurants where you can enjoy a table on the sand.  Other options are inside tables or on the partially covered patio.  Fresh fish, great salads, and their trademark tater tots!

Interior seating (Whitney’s)

Whitney’s—Who would have thought a gas station would have a second life as a casual seafood restaurant!  Seasonal fare, a bit more elaborate preparations than the usual (fish with rice entrée, for example) and very tasty!  No reservations, so go early, especially during the season.

Shore—A date night, special occasion place just down the road from Whitney’s.  A big place with lots of seating, some open air, and often a bit noisy.  Food options are varied and with some creative twists.

SARASOTA

Beso—One of Sarasota’s newest eateries offering a wide range of tapas.  It’s in the Mark complex and looks to have a lively bar scene as well as dining.  We’ve eaten here twice and enjoyed the shrimps in olive oil, patatas brava, and other small plates.

Duval’s—A longtime favorite on Main Street.  Duval’s serves lunch and dinner and their fish is some of the freshest around.  Décor is traditional to slightly dated, wait staff is friendly and competent, and we’ve enjoyed many good meals here. Wide choice of sandwiches and salads for lunch and entrée portions at dinner.

481 Gourmet (OpenTable.com)

481 Gourmet—Located in the Rosemary District, 481 is a fine dining venue with both indoor and outdoor seating.  Their menu includes pasta, scallops, shrimp scampi, duck, lamb, and of course, beef. 

The Rosemary and Thyme—A slightly pricier restaurant, The Rosemary shares a patio with 481.  Menu options run the gamut from some intriguing appetizers like escargots and a Chimichurri kebab to halibut, grouper, and steak frites entrees.

Pho Cali—Also on Main Street, Pho Cali is the essence of straightforward Vietnamese cooking.  Extremely casual serving super noodle dishes and stir fries.  Very popular at lunch time.  I occasionally crave my favorite, chicken with broccoli stir fry with rice, to which I add a trace of hot pepper.

El Melvin Cocina Mexicana—Hankering for a good margarita and some guacamole and chips, this place is perfect for lunch at a sidewalk table.  Follow that with enchiladas, a quesadilla, or even some tamales and you’ll soon be satisfied.  

Note: Header photo of courtesy of Toast.

Tidy Tidbits: On Screen and Plate

FRENCH WHODUNIT

Anatomy of a Fall ($ Amazon Prime, Apple TV)

Vincent, a lawyer & Sandra (The Daily Beast)

This is the third excellent new movie we’ve watched this season.  Sandra, her husband, and their son Daniel are at home in Switzerland.  Sandra, a writer, is being interviewed.  A thud is heard.  Investigation reveals the body of a man lying in the grass.  How did he get there? 

This French film, much of it in English with subtitles when French is spoken, is a fascinating and occasionally suspenseful examination of what or who caused the man’s death.  It’s also an excavation of a marriage, a fractured one with issues and disappointments.  One spouse has been more successful than the other, and their son had an accident which compromised his capabilities.  

French filmmakers like dialogue so perhaps some viewers might wish it were more concisely written. Nonetheless, the Chief Penguin and I were fully engaged.  The courtroom scenes with a cool and calm Sandra are especially compelling.  Highly recommended!

CRIME IN GOTLAND

Murder in Sweden, Season 2 (Prime Video)

Sebastian & Maria (PBS SoCal)

Titled, Maria Wern abroad, Murder in Sweden is an outstanding crime series.  Lead inspector Maria is a youngish widow and mother of a son and a daughter.  She’s also in a developing relationship with her colleague, junior detective Sebastian.  The rest of the team consists of two other men, Ek and Arvidsson; a tech person, and their boss Hartman.  Together they tackle challenging cases from chilling attacks on a politician, to death at a teen party, to the strange illness of a man on a plane claiming a murder has been committed.  

The cases have a dark side that can be hard to watch.  One of the most unsettling ones concerns online bullying and threats to Maria’s son’s high school class.  Over the course of the season, Maria both learns more and has more questions about her policeman husband’s death ten years before. 

Each case is solved in two episodes and there are 8 episodes total.  In my opinion, Season 2 is better than Season 1, which I also watched.  Recommended!

LUNCH OUT

Indian fare near Venice

Our good friend in Venice invited us down for lunch at Tikka Indian Cuisine.  This is a popular small restaurant located in a strip mall on the 41 Bypass with a Big Lots.  We were advised to arrive early as it quickly fills up.  And indeed, we got there about 11:15 and by noon, it was almost full.  When we finished, folks were lined up at the door awaiting tables.

Sample Tikka lunch (yoursun.com)

The lunch menu offers a selection of appetizers (samosas and the like) and combo lunches.  Combos include your choice of entrée with sides of rice, naan, and chef-selected appetizer and dessert.  We three ordered the korma, rogan josh, and vindaloo, all with chicken.  Other options were lamb, shrimp, paneer cheese, or vegetable.  The korma was appropriately mild, my rogan josh was medium spicy which was plenty of hotness for me, and the Chief Penguin bravely went for the vindaloo.  Even at medium level, it was very spicy—but then vindaloos are typically the hottest of Indian curries.  

Each combo was served on a thali (round metal tray). The day’s appetizer was a generously sized samosa and the dessert a rice pudding.  For vegetarians, there are several main dishes including yellow lentils, chickpeas, and a potato and cauliflower dish.  And if you dine in the evening, you can select from several tandoori dishes including one with salmon that our friend recommends.  Yum!

Fall Potpourri: Eating & Viewing

THANKSGIVING IN NORTH CAROLINA

We spent Thanksgiving week in North Carolina. I was pleased to see burnished fall colors on the trees as we landed at RDU.  That’s something I miss about living in Florida.  But it was a cold week, and this Florida wimp wore many layers to stay warm, even on the afternoon we explored a new park in Cary.

There was plenty of warmth on Turkey Day with several generations of family celebrating.  Our granddaughters and our son and daughter-in-law, my two sisters and spouses, along with nieces and spouses and one other kid.  We toasted with mimosas and sparkling cider and nibbled at an assortment of fine cheeses, jalapeno popcorn, and chips before attacking the table’s bounty.  With roast turkey and a ham, tasty sides (including mac and cheese), and a choice of pecan pie, apple cake, and yummy cookies to finish, there was no cause for complaint.  We had much for which to be thankful—not least the sheer joy of being together.

DINING HERE AND THERE

Magone Italian Grill & Pizza, Chapel Hill

As an antidote to turkey, many of us decamped to Magone Italian Grill the next day for dinner.  This unprepossessing place appeared casual in the extreme.  It looked like they focused on takeout business.  I explained that we were going to be 10 people and was it possible to have a table.  The young waitress quickly sprang into action, leading me toward the back, pushing two tables together, and offering to bring water for everyone.  

The menu is long and extensive, making one initially wonder if they would deliver on quality.  We were not disappointed.  My chicken piccata with angel hair pasta was delicious, while others enjoyed shrimp with pesto over penne, a pizza with pepperoni and fresh basil, and other classic dishes.  Throughout, our server was pleasant and helpful.  It was a relaxed dining experience, and I’d happily return!

BESO, Sarasota

(scenesarasota.com)

The Chief Penguin and I had a favorite Spanish restaurant in San Francisco, Coqueta, near the Ferry Building.  In Manhattan, we were regulars at family-owned El Porron until they closed due to the pandemic.  Consequently, we were delighted to read about the opening of BESO (kiss in Spanish), a tapas restaurant in The Mark in downtown Sarasota.  We had dinner here with friends and were wowed by the food, the space, and the service.  

Had I not been so involved in sampling what we ordered, I would have taken a photo or two.  As it was, we tried the patatas bravas (best I’ve had), mini pork & chorizo meatballs, shrimps in garlic oil, croquetas, fried artichokes, and bread with olive tapenade.  Portions are small as tapas are meant to be, and we happily shared what we ordered among the four of us.  

The menu includes a variety of Spanish wines by the glass or bottle, cocktails, and, of course, several flavors of sangria.  For those who want a more leisurely experience, it’s possible to order one of three paellas (allow 45 minutes.). I can easily envision this restaurant becoming a favorite!  It fills a hole in the local dining scene.  

VIEWINGFOR FANS OF BRIDGERTON

The Buccaneers (Apple TV+)

Nan in center with her compatriots (Hollywood Reporter)

Loosely based (very loosely) on Edith Wharton’s unfinished novel of the same name, The Buccaneers is an exuberant series of high emotion and high society.  The time is the 1870’s.  Five young women, daughters of rich American fathers, have journeyed from New York to London. They have hopes of snaring a duke or a lord as a husband.  Unlike the more reserved English girls, these Americans romp and run around outside, feet off the ground, arms high in the air.  

The central focus is on Nan (Annabel) who attracts the attention of two worthy men, one a duke, the other simply impoverished. Nan has a rich father, but she is not entirely whom she seems.  One friend, Conchita, marries quickly and just as quickly discovers marriage is not all that she expected.  Her British in-laws expect her to be demure and subdued.

Jinny, Nan’s sister, follows with a wedding to Lord Seadown, a controlling figure.  Others in the group are not sure men are what is needed in their lives.  What begins as balls and parties and gaiety soon dissolves into the messiness of life and unrealistic or unfulfilled expectations.

The gorgeous costumes, the lavish settings, and the modern musical soundtrack provide a wonderful backdrop to the dramas being played out.  

The series runs to 8 episodes with new ones released weekly.  I have watched the first four episodes, enjoying the series more as the five women are more individually defined.   Indulgent, fun, and occasionally poignant!  Recommended!  

Seen in Fearrington Village

Note: All unattributed photos ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved.)

Maine Moments: Reading & Eating

RECENT READING

BOOKS SET IN MAINE

Lilies and evergreens of Maine

Lily King is an award-winning novelist who happens to live in Portland, Maine.  With that credential, she has written an engaging piece “Reading Your Way Through Maine” for the New York Times series focusing on literature from specific locales. Amongst her list of twenty titles, I was pleased to see familiar ones: from Elizabeth Stout’s Olive Kittredge to Landslide by Susan Conley, and More Than You Know by Beth Gutcheon, along with several by authors new to me.  King also includes nonfiction titles and several popular children’s books, namely Blueberries for Sal and Miss Rumphius.  

Appropriately, she doesn’t include her own fiction (not set in Maine), but I have thoroughly enjoyed Euphoria (loosely based on a young Margaret Mead and contemporaries), Writers & Lovers, and recently, the novel below.

A FATHER’S GRIP

Father of the Rain by Lily King

King (goodreads.com)

Published in 2010, King’s novel Father in the Rain, portrays daughter Daley’s decades-long struggle to be noticed and loved by her father.  Charismatic and charming, Gardiner Amory is wedded to the bottle and is often hurtful and verbally abusive to his daughter and others.  When Daley’s mother separates from her father, Daley spends weekends shuttling from home with her mother to her father’s chaotic household.  Ki

Gardiner has remarried and has stepchildren. Daley must navigate, or at least survive, the ravages of this dysfunctional household each week.  This is probably one of the most harrowing and painful sections of the book.  Later, when everyone else seems to have deserted Gardiner, Daley returns to assist him, setting aside, temporarily she tells herself, her own life and love.  

What do we owe our parents and what is the pull and attraction of the daughter-father bond?  The writing is wonderfully graphic and descriptive, and the characters are believable, but I have to admit to becoming impatient with Daley—the sacrifices she makes, for what return?   (~JWFarrington)

DINING OVER BOOTHBAY HARBOR

McSeagull’s Restaurant

Harbor View at McSeagull’s

Located in downtown Boothbay Harbor overlooking the harbor and the footbridge, McSeagull’s offers a tempting menu of local seafood and fish.  We brought our friend from Sweden here for lunch, and the guys began with cups of chowder.  It looked very appetizing topped with some crispy bacon.  Later, the Chief Penguin declared it the best clam chowder of the four iterations he’s sampled this season.

The C. P. and I had fried haddock with coleslaw and fries.  Very fresh and lovely fish and a generous portion.  (Someone I know took some home!)  Our friend enjoyed some local oysters on the half shelf and sampled some of my haddock.  

The porch overlooking the harbor is a most pleasant place to dine, but the inside seating is also bright and attractive.  We’ve vowed to return at least once more this season!

Note: Photos except for author photo ©JWFarrington (some rights reserved) Header photo is Monks Cress.